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What question would you like to be asked each day?

Posted on May 26th, 2009 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

Is that true? Come to think of it, I already ask it of myself, and far more than once a day. It's Byron Katie's way of questioning the validity of one's thoughts.

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What question made the biggest impact on your life?

Posted on Dec 18th, 2008 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

It’s four questions, actually. Byron Katie’s four: 1. Is it true?                           2. Can you absolutely know that it ’ s true? 3. How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought? 4.... More »

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What most helps your personal growth?

Posted on Oct 26th, 2008 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

Acceptance of what is, as opposed to struggling against it. Is that true? I can hear Byron Katie question in the background. When I think about it, the worst that non-acceptance does is lead to... More »

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What has been your relationship to awareness and activism?

Posted on Aug 16th, 2008 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

Nowhere, no-how, have I ever been an activist. (Er, well, not officially anyway.) And it’s an illusion that we can bring or project or even raise awareness in/to anyone or anything outside ourselves. Awareness really... More »

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What techniques do you use to help people get along?

Posted on Aug 6th, 2008 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

I find in fact that I can’t resolve conflict between other people. What I can do is resolve conflict within myself. When I have integrity, authenticity, when I am at peace with myself, then I... More »

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What do you need to change the most in your life?

Posted on Oct 25th, 2007 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

I don't need to change a single thing. I am done rejecting pieces of me, regardless of what I or others think in moments of weakness needs changing. Believe me, there has been enough rejection in... More »

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Open letter re: Creative writing on zaadz

Posted on Aug 20th, 2007 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

  Thank you for your letter. I have a couple of concerns about your request, and a few comments as well. First let me say that in my view the writing workshop's originators' qualifications to... More »

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Whose life would you like to be living?

Posted on Aug 8th, 2007 by rudyan : quasar rudyan

I was all set to say, MINE! but then I read the question more closely. OK, I would have to say, Byron Katie's. Not for the fame, the money, the looks, the husband, the finally-her-life-works,... More »

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