Explore
Gaia Soulmates
 Advertising keeps Gaia free! Interested in sponsoring us?

What are you going to do next?

Posted on Jul 5th, 2008 by rudyan : quasar rudyan
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for July 05, 2008:

Have another coffee, get ready to meet up with a close friend who lives up island, dinner out (Thai? Indian? Italian?) and Rolling Stones Shine a Light: The Imax Experience (Scorsese). Oh, and of course, some writing and much talking.
Access_public Access: Public 5 Comments Print views (137)  
Tagged with: QaR, life, planning, events, writing, expression, self-expression, boundaries
Amazume : Pure Light Combustion
1 day later
Amazume said

And now, after digesting dinner and movie, and some self-expression how are you?

rudyan : quasar
8 days later
rudyan said

Nell, thanks for stopping by.

Not sure I understand the question, any more than I understand the one behind this blog. Am I supposed to be/feel different than before? Can't say I do.

And self-expression pertains to all of it, doesn't it? (Not just the verbal aspects.)

Is it just me, or are boundaries fading?

Amazume : Pure Light Combustion
8 days later
Amazume said

Hi Rudyan,


Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. Did I in any way cross a boundary, you would have rather kept in place? If so, I do apologize sincerely.

Just stopped by to re-connect, as I had noticed you sharing that you were ”neither here, nor there”. Btw, from where I am sitting it seems a most intriguing place to keep boundaries: if neither here, nor there, where…? Yet, unknown places can be highly exciting.

“Not sure I understand the question, any more than I understand the one behind this blog.”  “What are you going to do next?” definitely can take anyone out of the moment, which is why I thought it fun to ask a reflective question that includes your immediate past and 'the now'. I see now this caused confusion, which is can easily happen when we step out of the moment.

“Am I supposed to be/feel different than before?” Not necessarily. Is this the boundary you are feeling is fading? That someone other than you implies you better be feeling a certain way? I trust that the observation of your feelings is best left up to you!

Hope this helps clear things up.

rudyan : quasar
11 days later
rudyan said

Nell,

Did I in any way cross a boundary, you would have rather kept in place?

Not at all! I expect it's my “Is it just me, or are boundaries fading?” comment that made you question.

What I meant was that boundaries that I have always taken to be strong, even immutable (like those of time and place) lately seem to be developing fuzzy edges, so that there's a bit of a 'one time/ place' feel to events/ happenings in my life and world, as opposed to the more clearly delineated 'now vs. then' or 'here vs. there'. I like that.

Thanks!

Ruth

jenni : hello
15 days later
jenni said

hey rudyan, I haven't been by in awhile. stopping to say hi and how are you. That day and evening sounded very fun. love, jen

You have to be a Gaia member to post comments.
Login or Join now!